Marriage as a Cop
Ask most officers, “Who are you?” and the answer starts with the job: “I’m a cop.” That’s understandable. Law enforcement isn’t just a paycheck;...
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- Articles
The Five-Sentence Apology That Could Save Your Police Marriage
Breaking the ‘Crazy Cycle’: How Police Couples Can Stop Reacting and Start Loving on Purpose
The Cop Attitude That Can Save Your Marriage: Why Humility Beats Being ‘Right’ Every Time
When the Job Changes Who You Are: How Police Couples Can Survive Identity Shifts, Trauma, and Retirement
When ‘Cop’ Is All You Are: How Law Enforcement Identity Can Wreck (or Rescue) Your Marriage
- Videos
Why America Still Needs Cops: A Christian Detective’s Case for Law Enforcement (Video)
Why Police Officers Need to Understand the Connection Between Trauma and Identity (Video)
Can a Detective Really Make a Case for Jesus? (Video)
How A Detective Might Make the Case for God (Video)
Crime Fighters: Why Would A Good God Allow Moral Evil? (Video)
- Podcasts
Cops, Christians, and a Culture on Edge (Podcast)
Cops Know the Difference Between Evidence and Proof (Podcast)
How a Murder and a Few Google Employees Demonstrated the Existence of God (Podcast)
What Should Christians Think About The State Of Law Enforcement In America? (Podcast)
How to Find Peace in the Chaos of Law Enforcement (Podcast)
Marriage as a Cop
Law enforcement trains officers to own scenes, control chaos, and never show weakness. That mindset keeps us alive on the street, but it can...
Marriage as a Cop
Most cops can diagram a use‑of‑force or OIS timeline down to the second. But ask us to explain why we’ve been in the same...
Marriage as a Cop
Every officer has seen it: one bad attitude can turn a simple contact into a mess. We know how posture, tone, and pride can...
Marriage as a Cop
Every cop expects critical incidents to be hard. What most of us don’t expect is how much those moments quietly change who we think...
Marriage as a Cop
Every law enforcement couple carries a story that never makes it into social media posts or Christmas letters. The critical incidents, the dead victims,...
Marriage as a Cop
If you’re a police officer who’s married, you know you didn’t walk into your marriage as a blank slate. You brought your training, your...
Marriage as a Cop
Every police officer knows that some decisions carry more weight than others. Just as a rocket’s slight deviation at launch can mean missing the...
Marriage as a Cop
If you’re dedicated to becoming a good Police Officer, I bet you’ve discovered how hard it is to prepare for work, serve conscientiously, and...
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